Sunday, September 1, 2013

Abraham's Saga part 5



Works of the Flesh
Read: Genesis 16:1-16
Recall, if you will, God’s promise in 15:1-6 whereas God promised Abram a son—4out of his own bowels in response to Abram’s question in 2what wilt thou give me, seeing I go childless, and the steward of this house is Eliezer of Damascus?
Then in vs.4 God said, this shall not be thine heir; but he that cometh forth out of thine own bowels shall be thine heir. 5…seed was to be innumerable. 6 and he believed the Lord; and He counted it to him for righteousness.
There is a great lesson for you and me, for often when we hear God’s voice, if it seems too preposterous, with given circumstances, and we proceed to attempt to fulfill God’s promise in our own flesh, that God will always give us a second chance; not to mention that He still counts it as righteousness simply because we believed [were convinced and persuaded] that God was able and willing. Abram did just that; first by proposing to God in 15:2 that his seed would come through his servant Eliezer and 2nd in 16:1-15 through Hagar the Egyptian handmaid [slave] .
Eliezer, by some scholars, is supposed the wisest and eldest of Abram’s household servants; as such Abram is suggesting to the Lord God, that Eliezer be the heir to his possessions (15:2-3); but the Lord has different plans for the man of God. (15:4).
Author’s Note: I must concede this has been one of the most interesting studies of Genesis thus far. Chock full of insights and history vital to contemporary living both secular and Christian, giving valuable insights into the ancient history.  Many of us know of one whose barren womb has preempted contemplating surrogacy.
The story is chronicled centuries long before artificial insemination, test tube babies, cloning, genetic modification, and modern science’s attempts to create a human being. It demonstrates man’s futile attempts to play god with the pretense of benefiting mankind. [Remember Satan’s edict to Eve in the Garden concerning eating of the forbidden fruit; your eyes shall be opened, and ye shall be as gods, knowing good and evil 3:5b.] And further illustrates man’s futility and finiteness in creating more trouble for himself than intended. An added benefit serves to admonish those considering surrogacy to pay heed to the consequences. Attorneys may or may not disclose all the consequences, some on grounds of financial loss or gain.
Ancient Custom of Surrogates
Understanding ancient laws and customs are key many OT passages. From the outset, one might conclude Abram to be in contradiction to God’s Word, however when the laws and customs, of the times, are manifest a clearer picture comes to light.
Abram and Sarai were acting according to contemporary laws and customs of their times. There is only record of God opposing the surrogacy, nor surrogacy in general is found in Lev.20:11-17; Dt.27:13-26 (whereas Moses standing upon Mt. Ebal pronounced curse upon the list of profane behavior; which by the way merely magnifies the Ten Commandments Ex.20:1-17).
Surrogate: proxy; stand-in; substitute; deputy; replacement
Concubine: a woman who lives with a married man with lower status than his wife or wives; a mistress
With a clear definition of surrogate one might better understand Abram’s plight as well as Sarai’s. to be childless was considered a curse. She was an outcast, much as Samuel’s mother, Hannah (1Sam.1:1-28). Hence to bear children was and is indeed a blessing. Ps.127:3-5
1Ancient methods of obtaining surrogate mothers were sometimes uncivilized and not with the consent of the surrogate mother.  Slaves and concubines have been used as surrogate mothers in numerous countries and societies throughout history.  Surrogacy was not merely practiced; it was legislated in detail, so that the rights of the various persons involved, most importantly those of the wife and the surrogate would be safeguarded.
 The ancient law code of Hammurabi (ca. 1792-1750 BCE) [Babylonia law code about 1772BC] recognized the practice of surrogacy. 
[Hammurabi] was the ruler who chiefly established the greatness of Babylon, the world's first metropolis.2
Specified conditions:
·         Barren wife allowed to bring a handmaid [slave] to bear children in her stead. (law#144-145)
·         Preeminence of the wife to be safeguarded. (law# 145)
·         The wife had the right to punish the surrogate under certain conditions (law#146)
·         The surrogate was bound to abdicate her rights to the child, thus excluding the child from her family. The whole purpose was to birth a child for another. Meaning also she could not foster a relationship with the child.

 19.6 Hagar the Surrogate Mother By Hubert F. Sturges, www.everlastingcovenant.com, January 2013.  2Commentary by Charles F. Horne, (1915)
Abram, Sarai, and Hagar
Hagar: It is possible that Hagar was a part of the dowry, customarily given in exchange for a woman, Sarai, to Abram by Pharaoh (Gen.12:16). From the text Hagar began to despise Sarai, most likely because she knew she would still be considered a lower class than Sarai, even though she was presented as a wife to Abram (3b).
·         The prospect of Hagar bearing Abram’s child would be a great honor for her. 
·         The possibility of Hagar desiring to rear and keep the child is human nature, though the text does not address the possibility.
·         Being elevated in status as a wife meant that she and her son would share in the inheritance of Abram with Sarai.
·         Hagar becomes a central figure in the perpetual war on the Middle East as she was an Egyptian slave and mother to Ishmael. The fact that she subjected herself to Sarai does not negate her natural/fleshly claims to the blessing and inheritance of Abraham.
Sarai: Abram’s barren wife, told Abram to lay with Hagar, for the expressed purpose of procreating children (16:2).
·         Sarai followed the custom of the time regarding surrogates. Her intent was for Hagar to bear children in her stead.
·         Her mistake was giving Hagar to Abram to be his wife [thus elevating Hagar to equal status as Sarai and violating the Hammurabi code]. This no doubt led to Sarai’s despising of Hagar (16:4-5).
Abram: Abram did what was required of him and gave permission to Sarai to deal with the situation as she saw fit, do to her as it pleaseth thee (16:6b).
·         His mistake was hearkening to Sarai’s voice. Instead he attempted, as we all tend to do from time to time, to fulfill the promises of God in our own flesh.
·         The fact that Abram lay with Hagar does not constitute unbelief in God’s eyes. Rather, it underscores Abram’s faith in God’s promise, though he attempted to fulfill God’s promise by the works of his flesh.
Contemporary Surrogate Laws
Surrogate laws vary from state to state; while some may ban it altogether, others impose varying restrictions whether the action or paid or unpaid.
Plain and simple, surrogacy laws were enacted for numerous reasons, not unlike Abram’s and Sarai’s situation; but intended to protect the rights of all: the surrogate, wife, husband, and perhaps most of all, the child. Unfortunately, as in Sarai’s case, unexpected challenges often arise from the best of intentions.
As in Hagar’s case, it is a natural instinct [for lack of better terms] to desire to nurture the child with whom you’ve nurtured for 9 months; hence to finally give up those maternal instincts is extremely difficult.
Even today, with so many varying laws, the act of relinquishing parental rights is an enormous feat.
Can you imagine the hornet’s nest stirred up with the mere suggestion of a wife to her husband to, as we put it in the vernacular, sleep with another woman. It’s incomprehensible, to say the least! And yet we can read about it almost daily. No wonder God said it was a curse to do such a thing! Today we call it infidelity, an affair, adultery, fornication, and like such.
The fact of man’s legalization of such behavior does not testify to God’s condoning, rather it signifies His ordination of human government. Long ago, the Swiss legalized prostitution because they were unable to quench it. However, today the Swiss have created “sex garages” or “sex drive-ins” [prostitutes take their “johns” into furnished places] to hide the provocative behavior from public view in the streets and alleys,  but in doing so they have committed themselves to regularly monitoring the HIV AIDS virus amongst the prostitutes plus providing armed guards for their protection. The same goes with the pornography industry; despite warnings and “precautions” some participants still ignore the pleadings and contract the virus or other STDs.
All is man’s futile and finite attempt to alleviate the curse without giving up the sinful lifestyle. It’s akin to: having your cake and eating it too.
Barren Womb
            To be barren is not a sin, in and of itself rather it is one of the hidden costs of the fall in the Garden of Eden. Thus man, through God ordained human government, has legislated laws to ease the burden of women suffering from the barren womb.
Surrogate laws, on the other hand, are both good and evil by design.
Good:
·         In that they may ease the suffering of the barren womb, thus allowing couples to experience the joys of parenthood and child rearing.
Evil:
·         In the sense of Hagar’s case, not able to share in the inheritance.
·         The offspring often become victims not knowing their true identities and heritage.
·         Often they are cut off from rightful or perceived inheritances.
·         Often perpetual guilt may arise.
·         Another, similar situation arises with the advent of adoption; in contemporary times adopted children may long to seek their biological ancestry; some with great success, while others may come up empty handed.
Angel of Mercy: 16:7-12
Hagar is cast out of Abram’s abode, fleeing to the wilderness, finding water at a fountain on the way to Shur [an enclosure; a wall, a part, probably, of the Arabian desert, on the north-eastern border of Egypt, giving its name to a wilderness extending from Egypt toward Philistia (Gen. 16:7; 20:1; 25:18; Ex.15:22)]. 14Location of the well is between Kadesh and Bered; called Beerlahairoi ( the well of Him that liveth and seeth me).
Comfort of the Lord God
Hagar was comforted by the angel of the Lord, admonishing her to return to Abram and Sarai humbling herself, submitting herself unto Sarai as Sarai’s servant. [thus relinquishing her rights as a wife to Abram. As an added blessing she is told her seed would be innumerable10; furthermore the child’s given name shall mean God hears.
Ishmael: God hears; his character described: 16:10-12
·         10His seed is innumerable [line Isaac]
·         12Wild man
·         12Against every man
·         12Every man against him
·         12Lives in the presence of his brethren {Israel]
·         Ishmael was the only son borne by Hagar to Abram, though he later had other wives and children.
This chronicle serves to demonstrate God’s love and destiny for Ishmael. Even today God still loves Ishmael, who represents the flesh of mankind striving to attain the blessings of God through fleshly acts. Further demonstrating the flesh cannot inherit the promises of God, which are attained by faith only.
It further serves to demonstrate Ishmael’s determination to attain the inheritance of Abraham; further explaining the behavior of Ishmael’s descendants, the Muslims.
3Ishmael is recognized as an important prophet and patriarch of Islam. Muslims believe that Ishmael was the firstborn of Abraham, born to him from his second wife Hagar. Ishmael is recognized by Muslims as the ancestor of several prominent Arab tribes and being the forefather of Muhammad. Muslims also believe that Muhammad was the descendant of Ishmael that would establish a great nation, as promised by God in the Old Testament. 3Wickipida Free Encyclopedia
It becomes easy to harbor hostilities toward Ishmael and his descendants, the Muslims. However, one must remember it represents a spiritual warfare between God and Satan, between faith and flesh. Satan prefers it remain a war of flesh to disguise its true identity. While the Lord God keeps it on the spiritual plain that all mankind might receive the message of salvation through faith and not works Eph.2:8-9.
Four Score and Six
A score is 20. So 4x20=80+6=86 years.
That is Abram’s age when Ishmael was born. Ch.17: begins by stating Abraham’s age, 99 years old when the Lord again appears to him to once again confirm the covenant.
Faith Building Practice and Review
1.    Compare Sarai’s barren condition with Samuel’s mother, Hannah, 1Sam.1:5-28.
2.    What was the difference in their responses?
3.    Define surrogate:
4.    What is the character and destiny of Ishmael?
5.    Do you know of any seeking surrogate hood either as a barren woman or fertile?
6.    What admonition would you give to those whom you know?
7.    Do you now see the importance of Ishmael in history?
8.    Do you see God’s mercy and love for Ishmael and his descendants?
9.    What comparisons did you draw between Sarai and Hannah?
10. What are the pros and cons of surrogacy?
11. Is it a sin to be barren? Why or why not?
12. What is the initial intent of surrogate laws?
13. What peoples or nations are descendants of Ishmael?
14. Do you agree with the statement? No matter man’s intent, every decision made tends to garner more problem than he intended. Explain.


Knowing God
A brief [not complete, add to the list] synopsis of the persona of God:
·         Love
·         Gracious
·         Merciful
·         Righteous
·         Longsuffering
·         Gentle
·         Faithful
·         Compassionate
·         Forgiving
·         Friend
       The ultimate goal of Bible study is to know God and not to merely memorize Bible trivia. As you study, identify the attributes of God. For instance: make a note when you read of God extending His forgiveness or compassion, and remember how He has done the same for you.

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